![]() In the Old Testament, the Bible is clear about adultery: “You shall not commit adultery” (Deuteronomy 5:18). Yes, God will help you overcome this struggle. The Bible is clear that God loves you and desires to bless and strengthen you. As humans we all struggle with our thoughts and actions you are no more unworthy of God’s love than anyone else. So many people try to ignore or hide this kind of struggle. You are right and wise to confess this problem. The reason you feel guilty about it is that it is wrong to share your covenant of marriage with any other person, and God is reminding you of that. It is also not honoring to the old girlfriend. However, to continue in those memories and to fantasize about that old relationship is not healthy or honoring to you or your wife. I am sure many people struggle with past memories as they begin a new marriage. It is not unusual to clearly remember a first love relationship years later. Sometimes even during sexual intercourse with my wife I think of her! We are Christians and this fact makes me feel even guiltier about this! I want to break through this struggle. Frankly speaking, I still love my first girlfriend very much. I always compare my wife with her and find much dissatisfaction in my heart. I am going to become a father, but I can’t forget the moments we spent together a long time ago. I have been married for three years but I just can’t forget my first girlfriend, who is also married with kids.
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